I’m not ready to make nice!!!
May 26, 2010 at 8:57 pm 2 comments
I know that I am a true friend. So when a friendship ends, for whatever reason, I take it pretty hard. I knew the end of what I thought was a great friendship was coming. Now that I look back on things, hindsight being 20/20, I realize that it isn’t the end. We have come full circle.
When you try to build something on a rocky foundation, you are never on solid ground. I should have trusted my first instincts and kept the friendship on a casual basis. People will always tell you exactly who they are in the first ten minutes of meeting them. It’s your job to pay attention. Look back on any bad relationship, whether it is a romance, a friendship or a random encounter. Something was not right from the get-go. What I did wrong was to try to convince myself it was just a one-time deal. Dummy!!!!
No…I will not say what you want to hear. No….I will not “come clean” on something you think I did. No….I will not apologize for something I didn’t do. So…..I’m not ready to make nice!!!
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kailani | June 5, 2010 at 4:24 pm
Yes, your instincts are usually correct. There are so many times when I wished I had listened to mine . . . especially in relationships. I think it’s great that you’re standing your ground.
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Lani | June 8, 2010 at 4:17 pm
It only takes getting burned once to snap you back. Sadly, this casual friend has been more pushing to get together harder than when we were great friends. Unfortunately, I can’t trust her like I did before. My gut is telling me…at arms length. And that is where she will stay!!
Mahalo Kailani